@mia i get my self actualization from projects or things i've built or dreams i've managed to realize. i'm not going around causing problems and then selling the cure to those problems to get there.
self-important? yes! it's called self esteem, maybe a little ego. it's not a bad thing, in moderation.
and this is not a strawman, you can just scroll around the fediblock tag. there are STILL people flipping out over the tiniest slights against them and what do you know, when i click their profile, what do i find? exactly what i expected to see! almost to a T, christ.