@whirly i uh
uhm
i am certainly certain they were flirting but its not um
i dont know how to explain it
like you state a fact and then try to make it a playful (potential future sexual direction oriented) approach
like, "you have 4 toes" but the intent is that i want to say that i noticed it BECAUSE i want to pay greater attention to you, not because i noticed you have 4 toes
hard to explain, the flirt is secondary to intent???? i dont know that actually doesnt make sense to write out whatever send post