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some guy kept trying to make conversation with me at the train station I'd rather stay outside in the rain tbh
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@kaia nah the date is in more than a week.
i was meeting a friend.
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@methyltheobromine okie, plenty of time then comfy_cirno do you already have an outfit planned?
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@kaia no >< idk what to do i never had to think about dates in my life
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@methyltheobromine will you just go skating or also eat something afterwards? if yes, how posh?
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@kaia idk idk, just skating is planned ig
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@methyltheobromine you can wear anything you feel comf with that's clean and new-ish. however, don't wear hoodies or boymode stuff that is too informal. just my thoughts though
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@kaia i look too masculine to girlmode already cirno_blush i have basically only hoodies..
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@meso @methyltheobromine "I'm such a femcel, nobody will ever love me and think positively of me... Ew, a man just glanced in my direction, kill them with fire"
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@Arcana @meso literally yes because he'd clock me and that could end badly for me at night alone at the train station
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@methyltheobromine @meso Would he actually clock you though? Just drop the old "I had a hormone condition as a teenager" if pressed
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@Arcana @kaia eh whatever. i do have one fem looking pullover i could post pics if that's appropriate for a date. idk otherwise i only have hoodies.
but anyway my jacket is probably the bigger problem.
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@Arcana @methyltheobromine @meso literally this
lucy you're super pretty kill the brainworms
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@Arcana @meso i don't think i could pull off that excuse
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@meso @Arcana it's when you see a women and then you look closer and think "omg that's a tranny! the index ratio is so obvious"
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@meso@the.asbestos.cafe @methyltheobromine@netzsphaere.xyz 95% of women stop complaining about men before they find the perfect catch - many such cases!

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@meso @methyltheobromine No it isn't, why should people compromise their safety to be honest to some stranger?
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana Wait so you constantly brainworm about bieng too masculine to pass but a guy striking conversation with you is clear evidence you pass. And if you think you don't pass why would you be worried about him "clocking" you, he would already know and like you like that
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@Arcana @methyltheobromine So that they'd be on the same page. I mean not to a stranger but definitely if it gets serious like a date or whatever
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@meso @methyltheobromine Yes I was suggesting saying it to the stranger at the train station if they started kicking off
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana Then why would you need an excuse, he would know. And if he doesn't, well then clearly your face isn't too masculine (This is the correct option)
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@Arcana @methyltheobromine @meso If I saw her IRL I’d assume she was a cis German

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@40 @meso @methyltheobromine "I'm such an ugly manmoder"
*looks like the average southern German woman*
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@Arcana @meso @methyltheobromine she literally is more feminine than cis women lmao

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@methyltheobromine @Arcana
it doesn't really matter, but if you wanna get new stuff, you can get androgynous items. this is C+A, not ideal choice but you probably have one and it's not uncomf to shop there probably and it's cheap ChenShrug
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@mia @Arcana @meso @40 i think you've seen me already but ig it's different in person senkohmm
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana @meso @40 i don’t think i have? and in person is what matters anyway.

also ime everyone looks worse on photos than irl unless the lighting and framing is absolutely spot-on

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@40 @meso @Arcana i have a British (southern women) roommate yes i have seen british women
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