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Trash Panda
raccoon@hollow.raccoon.quest@lucy@netzsphaere.xyz
Ccccrrrrrrrriiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnngggggggeeeeeee
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Trash Panda
raccoon@hollow.raccoon.quest@lucy@netzsphaere.xyz
So is gatekeeping.
I'd rather give everyone a chance to avoid being a dick to a good person, you never know who you are causing distress to, some can take it, others are just one "fuck you" away from going 404
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Trash Panda
raccoon@hollow.raccoon.quest@lucy@netzsphaere.xyz
They still had a time of struggle to get there and we dont know what's going on in their lives.
They may have a lot of problems with their families still. They may still be judged harshly if they decide to be open about their gender.
I suffered from similar gatekeeping when I came out as queer because "gtfo biscum", because if I like women too I'm not lgbt enough, disregarding completely things that made/make me suffer. Things I struggled with.
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Trash Panda
raccoon@hollow.raccoon.quest@lucy@netzsphaere.xyz
Lucy I understand that you're suffering, but undervaluing someone else's experience won't make it better.
I envy normies too because they dont have to struggle with mental disorders like I do but I ain't hating on them.
Nor I say that people with less severe disorders are basically normies.
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
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@arcana@fedi.layer02.net @meso@netzsphaere.xyz @lucy@netzsphaere.xyz
What does that even mean
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affine@yourwalls.today
affine@yourwalls.today
Edited 1 year ago
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Johnny Peligro 🧊 
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
this is as sad as when i did my doomposting. you have people that actually like you romantically and sexually, so i dont think you can say that.
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anonicus@shitposter.world
anonicus@shitposter.world
@mischievoustomato @arcana @lucy @meso
IDK what this thread is about but I just wanna say that I would have mad gay sex with Matpat
IDK what this thread is about but I just wanna say that I would have mad gay sex with Matpat
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
@mischievoustomato @arcana @meso im 6ft tall and people are actually scared of me. people stare at me in public all the time.
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
alright i'm not gonna try to help. still, you at least have people that cherish the physical you, so don't be so down
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@lucy @mischievoustomato @arcana @meso i don’t think they’re scared tbh, they just don’t know what to do with you because their classifier is segfaulting
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
people stare at me often and i dont know what to think
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
delicious. long legs, torsos, arms. a delight
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
@mia @mischievoustomato @arcana @meso how is anything segfaulting? they see my man face and that's it
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@lucy @meso @mischievoustomato Why would they be scared of you? Being 6ft isn’t scary lmao
They probably stare because you behave in an unusual way due to the heightened brainworms
They probably stare because you behave in an unusual way due to the heightened brainworms
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arcana@layer02.net
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@lucy @meso @mischievoustomato no you don’t, unless the standard for man in your area is extremely effeminate
Passing is due to behavior
Passing is due to behavior
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arcana@layer02.net
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@lucy @meso @mischievoustomato you behave like a brainwormed terminally online person
People pick up on these things
People pick up on these things
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@mischievoustomato @mia @lucy @meso @snacks Nah, it’s just getting rid of brainworms that’s it. Act like you belong rather than delusionally thinking you’re a “gorilla man”
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
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kuro-chan 🏳️⚧️
sun_eat3r@goreslut.xyz
@lucy @arcana @meso @mischievoustomato idk what arcana said but i am entirely sure she said the truth
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kuro-chan 🏳️⚧️
sun_eat3r@goreslut.xyz
@lucy @arcana @meso @mischievoustomato i am not sure trust your understanding of what arcana says, lemme check
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
@arcana @sun_eat3r @meso @mischievoustomato you literally said "Passing is due to behavior" knowing i do not pass so you essentially said i act like a man
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
@lucy @arcana @sun_eat3r @meso no, you are the one who said that you act like a man in response to that
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@lucy @sun_eat3r @meso @mischievoustomato No, you act unconfident and brainwormed, and think of yourself internally as a “gorilla man”. That will affect how you appear to others
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@lucy @sun_eat3r @meso @mischievoustomato stop making threads about “passoids” and other terminology that hurts you
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
@arcana @sun_eat3r @meso @mischievoustomato it's piling up otherwise i fucking hate this face so much
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@lucy @sun_eat3r @meso @mischievoustomato you need to work on that, it’s objectively not a bad face. You need to find a way to love yourself and be confident, and break from the delusions of you looking like some gorilla
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
@lucy @arcana @sun_eat3r @meso the stop making them, it's just a self fulfilling prophecy. I've started to force myself to not talk about the similar things that annoy me because it's just hurting myself, try to do the same.
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anath
0@gh0st.live
@lucy @arcana @sun_eat3r @meso @mischievoustomato
She said acting awkwardly draws attention, and in both cases you are reinterpreting negatively, this is the same brainworm.
She said acting awkwardly draws attention, and in both cases you are reinterpreting negatively, this is the same brainworm.
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@snacks @sun_eat3r @lucy @meso @mischievoustomato Yes which is precisely what I think is the problem
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@mischievoustomato @sun_eat3r @lucy @meso @snacks Yes, just something being off and notably drawing attention
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
@meso @arcana @sun_eat3r @lucy it's also weird. i only know Lucy online, and she only has feminine vibes. Sure you can pretend online but I feel that she's genuine
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@meso @lucy @mischievoustomato nah that’s bull, it’s 100% due to acting scared and unconfident, that draws attention
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Johnny Peligro 🧊
mischievoustomato@rebased.taihou.website
@arcana @sun_eat3r @lucy @meso @snacks yeah. for many it also is even attractive.
<- needs cute shy gf
<- needs cute shy gf
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@arcana @sun_eat3r @lucy @mischievoustomato its not intentional she just sets not passing as baseline core factor of reality and then assumes everyone thinks that and they base their opinions off that
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@mischievoustomato @sun_eat3r @lucy @meso It’s about confidence, I act very masculinely, it’s about confidence in yourself
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@meso @sun_eat3r @lucy @mischievoustomato if somebody is delusional and thinks everybody around them thinks they look like a “gorilla man”, this will affect how others perceive them
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arcana@layer02.net
arcana@layer02.net
@meso @lucy @mischievoustomato I notice when people behave oddly, lack of confidence is extremely visible and draws attention
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Diceynes@annihilation.social
Diceynes@annihilation.social
@mischievoustomato @arcana @sun_eat3r @lucy @meso soon you will grow hair in your face and private parts but it’s totally normal. It’s called puberty and everyone goes through it. Your body may change but it’s part of growing up.
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@mischievoustomato @arcana @lucy I don't stare at girls unless shes very cool or something. I sometimes observe interesting looking people because I'm autismpilled spergmoder. I feel like I'm the only person who is ever so bored that I look at people around me, which is relieving because I don't want people staring at my fedi
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@Diceynes @arcana @sun_eat3r @lucy @meso I'm 23, and I'm hairy. chest, legs, arm, balls (jungly rn), beard (messy too rn)
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Lucy [hiatus era] 𒌋𒁯
lucy
@arcana @meso @mischievoustomato yes he just pointed out it's a physical feature (i consider this part of my face because it's part of ffs to fix)
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@arcana @lucy @mischievoustomato yes I feel like I'm extremely weird irl sometimes. Other times when I'm moody and have a set goal I'm less weird and might even look good or intimidating cuz I'm ugly. I used to be very good at sociability and confidence but uhhh that's what 5 years of isolation do to you
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@mischievoustomato @arcana @lucy ratio of good to bad photos of me is similar to the rate of keepers in journalism, probably 30:1
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