@sally @lucy i don’t know a single late transitioner who hasn’t been abused and emotionally neglected by their parents and other adults. not one.
and they all say they wish hrt had been available to them way sooner, or that just being aware that transitioning is a real option and that wanting it for themselves is okay would’ve helped.
i was very much aware of how irreversible this is back when i was 14. only reason i repressed was because the real danger wasn’t hrt, it was other people.