@kaia @dagda dating apps completely ruin expectations, also overexposure to the attractive of the opposite sex, the "dating an ugly person" aversion got a hundredfold increased.
it also just ruined Talking with the other Sex in general, when women approached me they immedietly started talking about how Handsome i was, not any real conversations, just showering me with compliments (obviously, they just wanted to get me to their Beds as quickly as possible), as someone who had Gynophobia back then, i was obviously very visibly uncomfortable, but they kept on going, this kind of behavior honestly Fueled my Gynophobia (and subsequently, misogyny), made me very paranoid about them, even when women came with honest intent to start a conversation