@snacks my dumbass read moid as maid for like five times straight

@snacks same as for foids tbh.

but for me it’s less about expectations of others than it is about self-respect. i think that unless you hate yourself, when you have as varied a wardrobe as most women do, it naturally makes you ask yourself “what do i want to wear today?”

@dagda @snacks tbqh before i transitioned most of my clothes were like 10+ year old t-shirts and jackets and everything was scuffed and faded.

like i said in the other post that was mostly a self-respect issue though (financial worries aside). i started dressing nice in my mid 20s when i got on the whole “maybe self-improvement will make me feel better” arc, and it was worth it because obviously a big part of social anxiety comes from the lack of that self-respect

@snacks @dagda and how is that the other way around? when you’re not feeling confident, where does that come from?

@snacks @dagda real

but yeah that tends to be a lot of shit to unravel, which is why most people can’t work through it without help from a therapist