chat how can I feel normal about myself? its always either "I'm a piece of shit I shoukd kms" or "I'm the single greatest being in the universe I'm a fucking goddess"
@N33R@fops.cloud Discover the art of "Not giving a shit", When i started doing this years ago my quality of life improved significantly . Stop giving a shit about what other people think of you their opinion does not matter for your life can end any day. Their thoughts or opinions are their own such are yours.
@N33R tbh i think its normal to feel different depending on the situation and its always kind of a spectrum but those extreme are the loudest for good and bad reasons...
@sally@N33R@VIPPER i'm not the manipulative pile of crap i was when i was 14, the feelings are genuine. there was a bit that went wrong last year that weighs on my mind. i thought maybe it would provide value to talk about it all but i have nothing to say about what happened, it all explains itself
@sally@N33R@VIPPER going to be honest though the more i think about it the more i feel i should reveal my past hand, no one would like it but it would provide some closure i hope
Sure, this addresses my former conclusion but not the latter, when you label yourself as a piece of shit you might be knowingly or subconsciously trying to deflect responsibility, maybe not on this particular instance but over time this can become a trend. Food for thought.