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Edited 14 days ago

Someone I used to know became a social media influencer and is quite the trainwreck. Here are all the red flags she ignored, per her own admission and some sleuthing:

  • she had just gotten out of a 10 year relationship
  • the baby daddy is significantly older, late 40s
  • the baby daddy was her boss
  • the baby daddy was already engaged to another woman and she was aware (denies in this is true and insists it's totally a rumor)
  • she knew him for 3 months but the only dated 6 months total
  • BD dumps her mid pregnancy and was fucking around on "work" trips
  • she says she thought they were both aligned on having a baby despite them not even being together for a year (LOL)
  • "he talked about marriage"

Can grown women stop infantilizing themselves ? People actually believe the shit that comes out of men's mouths vs direct action? Crazy.

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@FrailLeaf wait you were married to her? How long??
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@subnetter Women are utterly incapable of understanding one simple rule:

If be cheated WITH you, he will also cheat ON you.
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@pista she denies this on her platform and parrots the narrative she was bamboozled and how anyone calling her out is victim blaming
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@subnetter This is like what the bad guy in a movie with an office setting does
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@meso it keeps getting so much worse but yeah I'm happy I have never been dumb enough to want to have a baby for a man I barely known a month that embarrassing

Apparently the subreddit has lore about her staying at this mans apartment to "house sit" whilst he was engaged to another woman and the other woman showed up to the apartment while she was there trying to hide 💀
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@subnetter >9 visible tattoos just from that angle
I'm not sure who missed the bigger bullet
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@nerthos I don't think the problem are the tattoos, it's that they're shitty patchwork tattoos lol
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@subnetter Tattoos are for me one of the biggest red flags there are, and not the hot kind of red flag. It's sad because I've met several really cool and cute women who ended up getting a bunch of those. Including one who would have completely avoided it if her parents and grandparents weren't libtards pushing her into a college she didn't want to go to until she snapped at 22 and joined the army like she wanted to since she was a teenager.
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@nerthos @subnetter no woman looks better with tattoos, same way a building doesn't

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@mischievoustomato @nerthos

Cool, I'm still getting them and they're going to be expensive detailed sleeves coolguy

That was the last missing piece to repel men other than the way I dress and my piercings lmfao
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@subnetter @mischievoustomato That's not going to repel men, just the men that won't assault you lol
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@subnetter @nerthos does it hurt? my mum got a butterfly tattoo to hide a scar from the removal of a big mole.

also, its probably not gonna repel all men and many do seem to like it fwiw. would you like guys like that?

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@subnetter @nerthos also, you get em because you want that or it's a bonus for you, right?

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@mischievoustomato @nerthos

Men assault women no matter how they look or what they're wearing JFC
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@subnetter @nerthos yeah but that probably emboldens the more colorful types

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@mischievoustomato @nerthos

I don't really like men in general, and I don't think you understand what gay women's beauty standards are like mae

Being tatted is hot to most gay women
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@subnetter @mischievoustomato Well yeah you can't repel the assaulters with bad aesthetics, only the non-assaulters
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@mischievoustomato @nerthos

I don't care, my aura alone tells people to stay the fuck away from me unless they want to get hit with the bike chain I carry.
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@subnetter @nerthos alright. weren't you with a dude before? but well, do as you see fit

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@mischievoustomato @nerthos yeah I was, but I don't really date in general and most of my friends would agree that I do not center men in my life

Do any of you really think that anything about me revolves around the opinions of men and whether or not they think I'm pretty or whatever? Couldn't be me.
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@subnetter @nerthos imo by the way you express yourself it seems like men are quite a central thing in your head.

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@subnetter @mischievoustomato NGL you do seem pretty men obsessed down to picking an aesthetic based around it. The whole "edgy lesbian" aesthetic is deliberately built on the concept of subverting """male imposed""" traditional feminine beauty. Not to mention the trauma sexuality and all of that.

Women that are indifferent to men tend to be a very different archetype.
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@mischievoustomato @nerthos

Sure I do, that's why men are constantly giving me their opinions of how I should dress and look unprompted.
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@nerthos @mischievoustomato

I am not a lesbian, and I am also not a febfem. I simply do not center men in my life, which is a unique experience when the world quite literally caters to you.

I dress however I want, it doesn't really matter to me what anyone thinks and it hasn't since I was a little girl.
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@subnetter @nerthos why do you wear a chip on your shoulder so bad? people talk about everything and anything. do you assume malice? if people didn't say anything umprompted this place would be even more barren

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@mischievoustomato @subnetter Yeah a couple, generally pretty chill in the same way heterosexual men are towards other men.
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@subnetter @mischievoustomato The world just likes us because we're like John Halo if he was in FIFA26 left_armacat_flowerright_arm
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@mischievoustomato @nerthos

Not at all, I'm mostly referencing things friends and aquaintences have said to me unprompted, when they themselves have body mods themselves lmfao

But yes, I generally find it weird when men tell me what they prefer in women as if I give a shit when it does not concern me.
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@mischievoustomato @nerthos

Yes, but I'm not a lesbian. I experience the world in different ways than both straight and lesbian women.

I've dated few men because most don't meet my standards, and that also applies to women. I have not dated many people at all, I'm extremely picky about who in interested in.
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@subnetter @nerthos well you can't expect everyone to know what you care and dont care about unless you made an exhaustive list and posted it

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Another fakecel exposing himself on my tl
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@mischievoustomato @subnetter If you fuck with pernia enough he'll do that for you free of charge
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@subnetter @mischievoustomato @nerthos being tattooed is fucking based. I find tattooed women beautiful
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@dtluna @mischievoustomato @subnetter Now this is a ship that'd keep us all entertained
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@nerthos @mischievoustomato @subnetter
Ship? As in me and subnetter? Bro you're fucking tripping and gross
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Im still a virgin
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@nerthos @mischievoustomato @subnetter
> A man and a woman interacting online in a friendly manner a little bit
> "Man they're definitely in a relationship, maybe even fucking"
Your headcanon is extremely retarded, you incel dipshit
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@dtluna @mischievoustomato @subnetter Classic dtluna, still as much of a reactive faggot as back in the day, never change my man. beers for another 10 years
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