@georgia @ellenor2000 there are plenty of lesbians who feel the way you do with all sorts of pronouns attached, but 9 times out of 10 it is a non-transitioning female who presents as a woman/femme in my experience
I also know butches who use he/him and identity as trans to an extent, and have transitioned/ been on HRT, and yet do not ID as binary men or NB, and still see themselves as lesbians (specifically butch) first and foremost