@georgia @Saorsa I'm bisexual but I would need to be ideologically aligned with whoever I vibe with and that is a rare occurrence in general.
I had a trans guy that was into me and we were close friends for a long time but I didn't want to deal with the baggage of reaffirming his contradictory beliefs and I think he was still figuring things out at the time.
It was a period of not identifying or fucking with a lesbian community and yet trying to date lesbians and getting upset at rejection or failed relationships.