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Just stop @ing more than 2 people if youre talking to somebody its fucking annoying
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patchuun@social.xenofem.me
@Erato_Heti I want a retvrn to classic style hellthreads with 50+ people
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patchuun@social.xenofem.me
@Erato_Heti don't like it? we had a tool for that, it was called "mute conversation"
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@patchuun i want you to not include me in that
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@patchuun im going to ‘mute patchuun’ soon enough
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@patchuun @Erato_Heti patch is a good egg she always considers others first
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@patchuun when i wake up and see 5 times the normal notification volume i worry that im getting dragged and then i just get annoyed. I lay a lot of my comments like traps, with bait and everything. For instance, i said fiore smell bad to her roomate. But then fiore got pulled in those same hellthreads so my bear trap doesnt work anymore cause she got pulled to the other side of the reserve.
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patchuun@social.xenofem.me
@Erato_Heti in my defense I wasn't the one who tagged you into that, I just saw a budding hellthread and was like "ooh put me in coach"
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@patchuun i like when hell thread are organic and opt in and not when its cyberbullying some random obsessive schizoid kid and then patting themselves on the back. No offense girlies, youre very cool. But leaving the pings in when youre talking to him does encourage and normalize bad practices.
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patchuun@social.xenofem.me
@Erato_Heti this is a fair criticism, I agree we shouldn't be lolcow'ing him
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@patchuun thats fine that’s different
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@patchuun the ppl originally responded to the thread should be trimming it down in advance. I shouldnt have to ipt out of random morons pinging me. Naturally this is more because this website is shitty and built on braindead architecture than anything anyone did wrong.
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@Erato_Heti @patchuun I think we were mostly like "go away" and "what the fuck is happening". we werent *ahem* weening him or anything and I dont think we were really bullying him either. but I can see why you'd say we were and I'll be mindful of that...
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@patchuun the difference between lolcowling him and talking to him is literally just how many other ppl youve got tethered into the discussion to watch. But yeah ofc this isnt anything i can actually do since I was sleeping
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@Erato_Heti @patchuun oh yeah. I guess I was operating under that assumption lol
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@Erato_Heti @patchuun he seems to prodigiously misread replies lol
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patchuun@social.xenofem.me
@Erato_Heti @georgia well you should think that tbh
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@patchuun @Erato_Heti consensual bullying only
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@Erato_Heti @georgia villainposter of the year 2 years running
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@Erato_Heti @patchuun itd be nice if interaction was more stuff you show up to/look for instead of getting it filled into a trough or “timeline” as they call it here
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@desea @Erato_Heti we're all mere swine being slopped
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@patchuun @Erato_Heti slopps calling, hallucinated number so i never even knew
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@Erato_Heti @patchuun you ever get tired of the baseline expectation of social spaces online is a continuous thread of text stretching on forever with 0 refinement into something more refined or thought out to explore and weave inbetween?
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@Erato_Heti @patchuun thats already better than what i see in most social media
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@Erato_Heti @patchuun thats ruina youre walking into…
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