@Loki@whinge.town @meso@netzsphaere.xyz I guess it's time to beardmaxx for me ​​

@meso@netzsphaere.xyz @Loki@whinge.town nevermind I'm going to melonmaxx I'm melonmaxxing becoming a true melon

@meso me trying to manmode in my 20s (5’1”)

@shrimp @meso that’s unfortunate

@shrimp @naaksit @meso overgeneralizing a lot aren’t we

@shrimp @meso @naaksit people with 0 self-esteem tend to be “bottoms” i guess

ironically i physically overpower my partners and take the lead more often than not

but honestly the top/bottom dichotomy is just lame. versatility is much more fulfilling than heterosexual larping

@shrimp @meso @naaksit height-based dating is a red flag ngl

@shrimp @meso @naaksit i just… never really considered height to be a factor

but i also don’t have a real sense of how small i am compared to other people i guess? i’m just used to everyone being taller.
when i meet someone literally my own height i’m like “oh my gosh she’s tiny” 🥴

@shrimp @meso @naaksit i guess? it’s not even that i especially like taking charge though, or that it comes naturally to me. i just never felt insecure about my height

@shrimp @meso @naaksit of all the things i’ve been bullied for, that’s the one that never stuck

@shrimp @meso @naaksit oh it sure did

@shrimp @meso @naaksit and basically you either learn to be very assertive or people are gonna walk all over you (that still applies)

@shrimp @meso @naaksit tbh it stopped being a real problem once i left school and wasn’t surrounded by immature fuckwits anymore