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does fedi have a type? shy
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@kaia
> dress in fetish clothes and makeup
> complain about being someones fetish

evry tim
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@lain @kaia
Who the hell is Tim Every?
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@m0xEE @kaia Head of Asset Allocation and Head of Research and Strategy at Lockheed Martin Investment Management
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@kaia black metal gf > goth gf tbqh

my type is growth mindset gf

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@kaia Tomboys; girls that are way too clingy. Goth aesthetic is cute but many of them just want to be stared at by everyone and sluts aren't my thing.
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@kaia I'm into clowns and monsters because women are both.
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@lain @kaia since when was white face paint and black, lacy clothing fetish clothes and makeup?
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@lain @MalibuSunrise I learned from fedi that some of the girls got temporary tattoos for the shoots. not sure if misinformation
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@lain @kaia so after about 20 years of the style having existed, the existence of one popular pinup site using that aesthetic has made it into a fetish thing?
pornbrained.
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@MalibuSunrise @kaia @lain pretty sure collars spikes and random belts all in black have been fetish stuff for a while
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@snacks @kaia @lain yeah, because being crude was a sign on the rebellion that people wanted to sign by how they dressed, it was meant to evoke the
"what kinda freak is this?" reaction
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@snacks @kaia @lain yeah, but i dont think many people would be particularly into the person on the second photo on the left, they subversed the kink accessoires and only toning down the outlandish hairstyles and such made it be possible for them to be able to be an object of broad desire
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@lain @kaia @MalibuSunrise It goes back way further, to the boomers and their first "creepy girl" tv shows, you can still see hags doing 60s goth in Vegas
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@lain @kaia only if you're ugly
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@kaia I should update this but please consult the chart
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@hj @kaia indeed he belongs on the chart, whenver I update it
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@MalibuSunrise @kaia @lain @snacks outside of the mohawk looking half bald there isnt anything not traditionally fem/attractive there
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@mer @kaia @lain @MalibuSunrise @snacks if being attracted to goth is fetishization would dressing yourself like a watered down goth media stereotype be appropriation
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@qugalet @kaia @mer i'll just... make a backup of this one
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@sun @mer @MalibuSunrise @kaia @lain @snacks I think why people like goth girls is that they want to be dominated by a strong woman or maybe they are into the goth mommy thing.
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@sun @kaia @lain @MalibuSunrise @snacks just being the watered down goth fashion is culture evolving
it's appropriation if you clamor about representing it, like if you're out there making goth makeup tutorials instead of calling yourself the proper sub branch of goth like mallgoth or gothloli
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@kaia

I've always found east-Asian women very beautiful. I hate the fact that this makes some people associate me with guys who are like:

> Asian chicks are so hot. I wanna fuck one. blobcat-creepy-grin

Or:

> Western women are corrupted by feminism. I'm gonna find a traditional Asian wife. blobcat-nerd

I hate both those kinda guys. They are not my friends. I don't like the term "yellow fever" due to these connotations.

I just genuinely find east-Asian features to be beautiful, and seeing the face of a beautiful woman makes me feel warm and fuzzy. It's the same with any other woman whose face I happen to find cute and beautiful; it just happens more frequently with women who happen to have an east-Asian appearance.
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@MalibuSunrise @snacks @kaia @lain nothing to add besides that maila is right and yall need to like actually live life and dress in fun ways because to be perfectly honest you need to be the most basic generic pornbrained type of moid thats never dressed in a fun, interesting or creative way in their fucking life to fetishize goths or cosplay

that is to say: put on a maid dress and clean your room. your basket of used tissues is disgusting
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@MalibuSunrise @kaia @lain @snacks not only are you pornbrained but you have no drip. none at all. you've never had a fun idea for how to dress in your life while im here in oversized corduroy cargo pants and leather boots. you have nothing on me
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@snacks @kaia @lain @MalibuSunrise without getting fucked. just for whimsy while cleaning your room. there is no sexual reward its just funny
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@MalibuSunrise @kaia @lain @snacks you can do fun things without being horny
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@coolbean @MalibuSunrise @kaia @lain can't wait for my wizard hat to arrive, that thing is gonna go hard with my coat
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@snacks @kaia @lain @MalibuSunrise oh fuck yea i love wizard hats i want one so bad

i should finally try to order a camo one from that ukrainian surplus store they're so cool
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@coolbean @kaia @lain @MalibuSunrise i got some handmade felt one. Not sure if the brim is big enough, but on the other hand giant ass brim is gonna get impractical.
Final fantasy xiv blackmage aesthetic is endgame
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@snacks @kaia @lain @MalibuSunrise i want a huge brim to protect myself from the sun (thats also why 50/50 nyco ripstop is actually a decent fabric for my use-case)
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@mer @kaia @lain @snacks yeah, yeah, i could've provided better examples but like, otherwise i'd say i'm right in the assumption that normies arent really typically drawn to very alternatively dressed people
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@sun @mer @MalibuSunrise @kaia @lain @snacks people will do what they like anyway despite whatever semantics people come up with
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