@root Imagine thinking that pointing out something is gross is 'using the enemy's weapon.' You’re so deep in the echo chamber that you think having a standard for hygiene or social decency is a 'culture war.'
The reality is that your 'inclusive' worldview actually hurts the community because it replaces actual standards with a 'everything goes' mentality. When you tell people that nothing is 'too kinky,' you’re basically admitting you have no internal compass. You're just defending a lifestyle where 'gross' is an acceptable substitute for 'meaningful.'
Be honest and Stop pretending your preferences are a sociological breakthrough and just admit that some things are objectively unappealing to the general public.