@shibao yup

@nenetl @shibao this is a good point, i think people hate on bisexual women more than men because of misogyny on the one hand, like being more sexually prolific is considered masculine, and on the other because bisexual women have a rep of using bisexuality to attract men (partly created by men of course). but mostly this because bisexual women are much more active than bisexual men in "i can bring my boyfriend to pride" type e-activism. furthermore a lot of women who claim to be bisexual are just larpers these days i feel, saying you're a bisexual woman isn't socially risky in much of this generation, though it still depends on your community. while men are dissuaded from feigning bisexuality because male same sex relationships are still considered emasculating in a way that is different to women, and they aren't suspected of flaunting it to attract women because most women aren't into gay men in the way men are into the idea of same sex female relationships.

@shibao @taylan @nenetl yeah its pure probability, not everyone is at the middle of the kinsey scale but for those who are and certainly those leaning towards heterosexuality it just makes sense to do the thing that everyone else is doing that can get you babies.

@shebang @lanodan @nenetl @shibao its not really like that anymore once you grow up

@shebang @lanodan @nenetl @shibao or at least gay hookup culture is now merely as bad as het hookup culture. there are exceptions, like for the polyamorous ofc