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they should make a trans flag that doesnt look like that
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@MURRUMUR we should make and live a tradition of wearing our own symbols we design ourselves to suit us and change with us

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@MURRUMUR when I found out that it was designed by a Navy veteran a lot of things clicked into place
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@nyx @MURRUMUR "Things that are illegal in civilian life are normal in the navy" makes now even more sense

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@nyx a navy vet who wrote sissy forcefem erotica lol
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@desea i like how some use 🍥 emoji like progynova
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@MURRUMUR i wish more diy suppliers did more than boring ass white boxes, people shit on otokonoko pharmaceuticals but at least they did something artsy with their packaging

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@MURRUMUR few know this but this is what the tranny flag was originally meant to symbolize. it is a NATO psyop making trannies into pawns of neoliberal neoimperialism. that's why I only salute the REAL girlflags!!
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@nyx @MURRUMUR need to get like one of those custom printed flags with one of these designs on it instead of the sissy imperium flag ..
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@desea @MURRUMUR i want more boring boxes, not something that screams HRT HRT HRT to border control hogs looking through incoming mail from the EU
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@FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea yea imo "skin care oil" with a label is fine
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@MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea the problem with that girl wasnt the branding the problem is that her lab wasnt really above board and would ship with dust in her shipments and shit. the artistry and branding of what she was doing was fine ppl are just hyperbolic.
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@MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea yall r still being a lil hyperbolic to with the trans flag thing like yea the flag inventor for trans is a repressed navy brat but thats kind of the point. its a flag for heavily repressed ppl who didnt get time to spend with their own souls its not a psyop in the typical sense. its literally the 'i was repressed for so long and now im showing where its at' flag. once you get past a certain point in development you hop to the lesbian flag or the purple axe or get edgy and relate to pirate flags or something.
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@FiringSquadsEnjoyer @MURRUMUR @desea like if you want to be annoyed about that flag rep the real problem with the trans flag is that it literally represents ppl who like missed out on a semi functional childhood so it shouldnt really be for ppl who were able to transition in middle school (aka 'youngshits'). my point is that flag should exist and ppl should feel a certain cultural pride with it but also we shouldnt be suprised that theres been an outpouring of internal splintering from it in terms of who its 'for'.
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@Erato_Heti @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea i mean as it stands it's a dominant social identifier and i have to put up with seeing it, it's fine to be a little iffy on it cause its kinda ugly and its like, colors people associate with babies
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@MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea I wasnt really thinking abt the infantility angle. thats true but most ppl are prolly not reading it like that bc of already being around ugly flags uncritically (the superpride flag, the amerikkkan flag, whatever city flag they are around).
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@MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea honestly I wouldnt be suprised if part of the palestinian liberation pivot for a lot of trans ppl may be on a unconcious level ppl trying to pivot and identify with actually decent flags. (since the israel flag is like ghastly levels of ugliness to).
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@MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea yea i was making a lukewarm defense but you make a good point that its basically for clueless trannies like. i doubt the infantility thing was on purpose but the flag creator was probably like 'this is a softer blue than the one in the navy and, i like pink'.

with that said I read a decent article by halimede (i know...) that indicates the 'contrarian' insecurity of indentifying purple (in strong opposition to pink) as a favourite color that I actually quite like. a lot of the time trying to represent with this shit at all opens you up to looking way too insecure in general because even though its correct to identify with womanhood, the presuppositional symbolic identifiers with womanhood are kind of awkward and insecure seeming.

"Purple Girls are defined by not being Pink Girls [like oppositional sexism but not evil]. "

Like heres the thing you have to remember not all subconcious criticisms are either unfair or worth overindicating. Nyx makes a big deal of identifying with purple but 'in a chemical way'. You probe at any one of us too much and most anything we do is going to look embarrassing. Are we being cool or are we just doing over intricate 'not like the other girls' shit?

This whole conversation is a lot more on my mind also because my goofy ass girlcadre put the trans flag on the windowsill, so now I'm in a pickle. This is going to be exclusively my room soon but if I take that flag down and replace it with something more obscure it will come off like a strange sort of concession or over indication. 'Did the weird tranny neighbors move out? Oh no they are still there, oh I guess they just...got weirder.'
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@Erato_Heti @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea estonian flag makes better use of the blue and white, weirdly it also kind of looks like a pride flag
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@Erato_Heti @MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea I think that halimede article falls apart when you read the footnote that says "if she likes red, she is also a kind of purple girl but one who narratively frames herself as having agency. And a chuunibyou." and you realize that you could just order every single colour in ascending levels of not-like-other-girls-ness until you double back to pink actually being the colour that's the least like other girls and you realize the article is just another thinly veiled excuse for the writer to fetishistically taxonomize women
(I really don't like halimede omg)
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@hope @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @MURRUMUR @desea i disagree that it would ourobourous in on itself like that. but youre right its more of a fetishist taxonomy than i realized. im better than these ppl im going to run this color theory idea my own way.
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@Erato_Heti @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @MURRUMUR its useful for communication to others, its the reason i wear a variant on my person all the time, i just wish to be an arrangement of symbology myself and that flag is there to balance out other aspects of how i dress, i wouldnt say i resent it or anything but i kinda want us as a minority to have more semi coherent culture that even some of the least connected ones have access to instead of the current state i perceive to be there being a massive gap between those of us online/offline with one of the few shared things being that flag, though even the online bits on their own could stand a long hard look at some of the most proliferated bits instead of just uncritically proliferating them further, but most i can influence is my immeadiate surroundings so i know what i will be doing

tho i get not wanting branding on diy, it should be optional not the only thing if it did exist

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@Erato_Heti @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @desea this kinda stuff happens now and then, its mostly kinda like batch focused i think
any time ive had stuff from them it looked normal but also it weirdly hurt going in so idk
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@desea @MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer honestly i dont care about communicating with others… lain_angry2 IM NOT… *realizes what im currently doing*…im fine its whatever
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@Erato_Heti @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @MURRUMUR i dont know how you all can keep hermitposting, if i had nothing but my own mind and the texts for company for a long period of time id prolly go insane in a bad way and end it

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@Erato_Heti @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @MURRUMUR @desea the question keeps burning:
is halimede the world's most horrible lesbian chaser or a tgirl larping as the world's most horrible lesbian chaser? and which one is worse?
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@desea @MURRUMUR @FiringSquadsEnjoyer ive basically learned the more you talk to other people the more liable they are to depise you and socially lynch you so for me i lock myself indoors with my tomes and pen out of suvival.
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@Erato_Heti @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @MURRUMUR that fucking sucks but i cant blame you for doing what you need to survive, i hope your environment gets better fast cuz that shit sounds like it sucks

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@gav it's actually incredibly easy just use different ones
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@MURRUMUR i dont think it looks good when theyre next to each other, maybe a black border?
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@zx @FiringSquadsEnjoyer @MURRUMUR @desea rules of the road when it comes to alternative brazilian culture unfortunately. Aint that right @catholick
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