@pernia @get @sampler @georgia @meso @yomiel @coolboymew not hugs I misspoke I mean cuddling, I hug my friends and family
I also have guy friends who are not my boyfriend, some friendships spanning since childhood, and yes they're normal people.
But there are many times these exact friends have had to defend me from other men in public. I've also ended friendships with men who sexually assaulted me when they thought they could get away with it. I've ended friendships with men in uni who confided in me that they raped their girlfriends, for whatever reason
Everything I know about men was taught to me by the men in my family, especially my father, and although I once thought it was a extreme belief system, it has unfortunately turned out to be proven true in many instances. I try to practice discernment as best I can, I know that men do not generally randomly approach women for any reason other than sexual interest. It got to the point where I stopped handing out my number in study groups because of autistic spergs who would get attached.
There was a woman my boyfriend and I were mutuals with. She was very naive and lacked any intuition in regards to the nature of men. When she totaled her vehicle she truly believed her boss had no ulterior motives in purchasing a new SUV for her to "have". Of course at some point he felt spurned and asked for the car back lol