@georgia @anemone I mean, I can't argue that this is how a hindu would see this, so with you being one you will stick to this interpretation.
I have a far more practical/metaphysical view of divinity, rather than a religious one; though this also is reasonable since you're more interested in following a path to attaining grace and I'm more interested in understanding the nature of divinity and its internal functioning.
I've always done the whole "what God wants from you" part instinctually instead of religiously, and it has worked so far. I think this goes for a lot of beings with different degrees of divinity, they don't necessarily do their role according to structured rules (though some do).
I do agree with the part of "they wouldn't have their position and power if they were off their role" but that's also IMO proof of the validity of playing the part unconsciously or instinctually, if they weren't doing what they're supposed to do they wouldn't be doing any "doing" in the first place.
>that appear fearsome or disgusting are actually quite beautiful and benign to the eye and heart of a yogi
I don't think appearances are too important, since divinity can manifest in many ways depending of necessity and purpose, and this happens in humans too to some degree.