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@Arcana i 💅 except at work cause nail polish for MEN not allowed..
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@nyoom @Arcana awesome losing my job with no charisma or skills to get a new job
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana @nyoom i dont know hwo you lost ur defence job but your have esteem issues because you can get an webshitter job properly lol
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana 😬
i dont want to join your polycule im sorry
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@tiskaan @Arcana @nyoom i miss defence job even though the company was shit and paid less then my current employer I'd do that stuff again at a better employer if i could.
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@tiskaan @Arcana @nyoom no startups pay better, it was a big german company. just germany things lol i don't have a degree so no jobs for me
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@Arcana what works? you think i can just starts girlmoding at work? I'd get fired lol.
even me merely mentioning being trans prevented me from getting a job for 3 fucking months. the current job is the first i applied at without revealing im trans. i made baby steps so they don't deadname me but im still not out to everyone, only a few trustworthy coworkers
cc @nyoom
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@lain @Arcana @nyoom @methyltheobromine this is a hugbox thread.
youre doing awesome.
now give me attention or ill play spooky mind tricks on you
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana I have friends and cousins who use nail polish and it's gay but how am I supposed to tell them that
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@MercurialBlack @Arcana @methyltheobromine i mean like talk to them as if they are gay and if they question it you say its because they got nail polish on them.
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@tiskaan @Arcana @nyoom @lain listen if i wanted attention rn i could open one of the many chats i kept ignoring for days because it was too much for me to handle.
i don't want attention i want either genuine advice or at least to be understood in my struggle? and no "yeah you gotta work on that" bullshit advice. literally, how do i girlmode while looking like a man (I do i posted pics you've all seen me), being legally male at a job that very likely would fire me for shit like nail polish or makeup?
> just be confident
no it's not about confidence
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@methyltheobromine @nyoom @tiskaan @lain >literally, how do i girlmode while looking like a man

You don't
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana @nyoom @lain voicetrain and stop looking a winter semester uni student (hoodies and tracksuits)
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@tiskaan @Arcana @nyoom @lain i do but still this wouldn't help me at work
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@methyltheobromine @Arcana @nyoom @lain whats the issue at work ?
wait lemme read the thread
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@tiskaan @Arcana @lain @methyltheobromine I think the issue is her legal id which employers see

so she should try to change that
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@nyoom @Arcana @tiskaan @lain i can't it takes fucking years to do that and i can't afford that legal battle rn, unless the promised new law actually comes
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@nyoom @Arcana @lain @tiskaan tbh my legal id wouldn't change anything at work unless i go stealth, which i can't because i couldn't pass without ffs
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@nyoom @methyltheobromine @lain @tiskaan Yes

If you have the right ID and dress the part, most people will be convinced, especially in areas were trans people aren't common
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@methyltheobromine @nyoom @tiskaan @lain When did they see you? Plus that's their opinion based on knowing you
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@Arcana @nyoom @tiskaan @lain october 2022 it's @georgia also rafa who sees me regularly irl idk about @snacks opinion
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@methyltheobromine @nyoom @tiskaan @lain @georgia @snacks So something over a year ago when you were in an extremely disheveled state, and a guy who has known you for years and years and may have ulterior motives

Good list
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