@georgia if there's one thing that bothers me, it's when uneducated people make up entire teachings out of whole cloth. it doesn't even matter what religion or philosophy it is; i feel similarly when biblical sins are just made up like that
i think there's this big misunderstanding among the uneducated regarding the dharmic teachings of rebirth/reincarnation. it's not a reward at all, and becoming a human is the next-best thing to cessation. even better than godhood, which has a tendency to cause vanity and more bad karma as a result. i wouldn't want that, no matter how tempting.
(i also don't think cessation seems as scary as many people make it out to be, if anything it seems peaceful, free from desires and enslavement of the mind. i wouldn't mind it at all)